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Clever ADHD Products
Posted by coachkimcollins on January 12, 2012
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Listen to Your Body
Posted by coachkimcollins on September 6, 2011
Are you listening to your body? If you were to check in with your body right now, what would it tell you? Would it tell you that you are hungry, thirsty, tired, stressed, that you’ve been sitting at the computer too long, or that you have to go to the bathroom?
I tell my clients all the time that if you don’t listen to your body – eventually it will be heard!
Listening to your body is particularly difficult when you have ADHD. If you are constantly distracted by things or get easily caught in hyper-focus, it’s hard to remember to pay attention to what your body is telling you.
Ignoring messages of pain and discomfort can eventually have permanent repercussions. So, it’s important that you set up a system that reminds you to check in with yourself.
- Establish a timeframe to check in with yourself, like every 30, 60, or 90 minutes.
- Decide what you will ask yourself during your check in. For example, what do I need to start doing or stop doing to feel focused and energized right now?
- Choose a reminder tool to use like your computer, your cell phone or a habit changing device called MotivAider.
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How Are Your Weekends?
Posted by coachkimcollins on August 31, 2011
Are you spending the weekends the way you want to? Most of the time we are so focused on creating structure during the weekdays, we forget about planning how we will use our time on the weekend.
The weekend presents a challenge for many people with ADHD because the built in structure of work and school are not present.
The first thing you want to think about is, how exactly do you want to spend your weekend? Do you want to use your weekend to take care of household chores so that your weeknights are free? Or do you prefer to take care of your chores during the week so that your weekends are free for rest and recreation? Another option is to balance your chores between weeknights and weekends so that you will have time for finish up chores and get some recreation.
The important thing is that you think about how you want to spend your time and plan a loose structure so that you control your weekend instead of your weekend controlling you.
- Make a list of things that must be done on the weekend and post it where you will see it.
- Plan weekend activities as a family and put things on the calendar.
- Make a habit of getting the kids to prepare for the week (doing homework , chores, and getting clothes ready) Friday night or Saturday morning to avoid the last minute Sunday night chaos.
- Alternate weekends with other parents to shuttle kids around for weekend activities.
- Choose at least one fun or relaxing thing to do every weekend.
- Try to establish one weekend a month where you don’t do anything you don’t what to do.
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Jump Start Your Brain And Get Tasks Done!
Posted by coachkimcollins on May 5, 2011
- Do something physical. Every time you exercise you are helping your brain’s executive functioning abilities. I usually recommend doing some jumping jacks, running up and down the stairs a few times or taking a quick walk.
- Meditate before you jump into a difficult or boring task. Just take 5 minutes (set a timer) and focus on your breathing, take a quick power nap or visualize yourself successfully completing your task.
- Drink some water. Dehydration can impact your ability to stay focused and can impair your short-term memory and the recall of long-term memory.
- Take a Green Break. According to Kathleen Nadeau, PhD “Taking breaks to refresh your energy and concentration is an effective way to increase your chances of completing your task.” Because the color green has a calming quality, Nadeau suggests facing something green (particularly something in nature) and focusing on it while taking deep breaths.
- Get motivated with music. Music has to power to change your state of mind. So, pump up to music to get you in the mood to work.
- Be accountable. Tell someone else what you plan to do and when you will be finished. Then arrange to check back in with them when you are done.
- Try the 5 minute method. Set a timer and just start the task for 5 minutes. Once the timer goes off you can decide whether you want to continue or transition to something else.
- Create a Benefits & Consequences Card. The ADD brain rarely remembers the pain of the past and the goal of the future. So it may be helpful to write on an index card what the benefits are for getting the task done and what the consequences are for putting it off. Post the card in front of you so that you are reminded of these things in the moment.
- Talk through your task with someone else. Sometimes you just need to talk about a task with someone to clear your mind and organize your thoughts. Set a 5 – 10 minute timer and call someone you can use as a sounding board. A brief conversation may be all you need to get started.
- Create an endpoint. Write out what your goal is for a single work session, define how long the work session will be and plan a reward for when your are done .
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Hyper-focus
Posted by coachkimcollins on January 12, 2011
Are you tired of getting caught in hyper-focus at the wrong times?
The ability to hyper-focus or concentrate intently on one task for a long period of time can be a gift when it’s not standing in the way of accomplishing other things that are important. Here are some strategies that may help you rein in your hyper-focus so that you can use it when you need it.
- Pay attention to what types of activities or tasks you tend to hyper-focus on and plan to do those types of tasks when you are not in danger of missing an appointment or deadline.
- Practice stopping. Set a timer across the room (out of reach) to go off every 30 – 60 minutes and no matter what you are doing – stop, stand up and go turn off and reset the timer. By practicing this you are conditioning yourself to work in 30 or 60 minute blocks and to react to the alarm when it goes off.
- You can also place a post-it note on your timer to remind you why it’s important to stop and move on to the next task.
- It may be easier to break away from a task when you make it small enough to do quickly. So, break your tasks into bite-sized action steps that take 5 – 15 minutes.
- Plan time to hyper-focus. Clear the decks of other essential projects and then allow yourself to work on a task for a large chunk of time. You might want to have someone call or come and get you so that you won’t work too long without taking a bathroom or food break.
- Afraid of interrupting the flow of creativity that hyper-focus brings? Learn to bookmark your spot so that you will be able to come back to where you left off. Practice this by using the last 5 minutes of a task to tie up loose ends and note what you were thinking and what your next step should be.
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Adult ADHD is Real: But How to Convince the Unconvinced?
Posted by coachkimcollins on August 23, 2010
Do you know or love someone with ADHD? Do you struggle to understand the difficulties and inconsistencies of ADHD? This is book you should read.
Gina Pera, author of the book “Is it You, Me, or Adult A.D.D.?” has asked the questions that many Non-ADDers are asking:
- Why does my partner have lots of attention—for some things?
- Why does my partner get the fun, and I get the drudgery?
- Why is my partner consistent—at being inconsistent?
- Why can’t my partner “Try Harder” to pay attention?
- Why can’t my partner just grow up?
Click the link below to read more about this book!
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Describing ADHD
Posted by coachkimcollins on June 23, 2010
I was recently given an interesting assignment in an ADD coach training that I’m in. I was asked to write 2 sentences: one describing how I would explain ADHD to an everyday person and another describing how I would explain it to an employer.
I posed these two questions to a small group that I run and here are the sentences I crafted from their response.
- As a person with ADHD I can focus intently on things that are engaging, but at the same time, am easily distracted when doing routine tasks; consistency in any endeavor is extremely challenging.
- I can be an extremely creative, flexible, and energetic employee when my job responsibilities are clearly defined, when I am given deadlines, feedback, and can maintain frequent communication with my boss.
How would you describe ADHD (in positive terms) to someone in one sentence? Please send me your response by commenting on this post.
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5 Steps To Managing Your Finances When You Have ADHD
Posted by coachkimcollins on May 31, 2010
Many people with AD/HD have trouble managing their finances. They usually don’t have an effective system for paying bills and acquire an overwhelming amount of debt, due to impulsive spending. Managing finances requires attention to detail, record keeping, timeliness, and organizational skills; all things that are challenging to people with AD/HD. Here is a simple, yet effective way to manage your money and pay your bills on time:
1. Collect: You need to know what’s coming in and what’s going out in order to effectively manage your money. Collect one month’s worth of pay stubs and bills in one container.
2. Enter: Creating a visual representation of when your money comes in and goes out will give you a clearer picture of your financial situation and make it easier to develop a payment schedule. Print out a blank calendar or use an online calendar such as Yahoo Calendar or Google Calendar. Enter all payment amounts for each bill on its due date. Then enter the amount of your paycheck on the dates you get paid. This is your bill payment calendar for the month.
3. Analyze: Use your bill payment calendar to analyze when you have the money to pay your bills. If you get paid twice a month, then those days should be your bill payment days. Divide your bills into those that will be paid with the first check of the month and those that will be paid with the second check of the month. Schedule a reminder on your paydays to pay your bills and use your calendar to check off payments.
4. Setup: The easiest way to pay bills nowadays is online. Most banks offer free bill payment and even if your bank charges a fee; it may be worth it to avoid late fees. Sign up for online access to your bank if you don’t already have it and setup your bill payment service. Even if your bill can’t be paid electronically, your bank will mail out a paper check. Once you do the initial setup all you have to do is enter who, how much, and when you want your payment scheduled (just make sure to schedule your payments far enough in advance for the bill to be paid on time).
5. Budget: Now that you know how much money is coming in and what your fixed expenses are, you should start tracking your unfixed expenses. For the next month, try to collect all of the receipts where you paid cash. At the end of the month take your cash receipts and your bank statements and categorize your expenses. Where are you spending too much money? Where can you cut back? Now that you know how much you have, where it’s going and what needs to be paid when; you have control over your finances and can determine how much money you can actually afford to spend without breaking the bank. *For those who find money management too overwhelming, there is help available. Daily Money Managers do everything from paying your bills for you to balancing your checkbook and organizing your records. For more information, check out The American Association of Daily Money Managers.
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